SF

Upscale French food - must order roast chicken

Casual Italian, Great wine list

Bomb Chinese

Great food

Tiki bar

Cool cocktail bar

Live music

Take the ferry - beautiful house boat town

Further Option - Monterey/Big Sur/Carmel by the Sea so so pretty. Worth spending the night if you have time. Hotels in Carmel are much more reasonable. Check online to make sure roads/highways are open, landslides can cause closures.